I (18F) and my bf (19M) have been together for 3 years now and we both share our Facebook accounts with each other. Recently, I accidentally opened his IG account in my phone without his knowledge. I don’t really check that account anymore since it’s pretty empty and he doesn’t have that much followers.
However, I got a notification that somebody has messaged him and they both didn’t know each other. I stalked its account and it looks like one of those typical porn accounts that asks for your dick/pussy pics. That person already sent him a photo of their pussy and he responded with a heart and asked for more. He also sent them his own dick pic and invited them to have a video call.
I am not against my bf for watching porn or following anyone who post lewd photos. But this interaction made me feel betrayed and I wanted to confront him about it. However, I’m kind of scared that he will find out that I’ve been opening his account for weeks now.
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There’s two different issues here but they don’t “cancel” each other out.
You snooping: invasion of his privacy. That’s not cool.
Him exchanging sexy pics with someone else? Also, not cool.
Both of you have the right to feel upset but as I said, each doesn’t cancel the other out. You’ll both need to work through trust issues with one another.
I don’t wanna come across as rude, it’s not my intention.
But why share a Facebook account or have any other socials logged into on each other’s phones? It screams the need to know what your partners doing all the time, for me.
Snooping (and I’ve done it before too) isn’t cool. Snooping gives you stomach aches and everyone has a right to their own privacy when on and off social media.
I’d confront him. Sometimes, when you do the wrong thing you gotta own it. Communication is key.