Is [male] cumming four/five times in one day bad ?

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2. >wouldn’t be able to do focus on work for a couple of days

   This is a sign of an addiction and I’d probably seek some help from a professional at this point. If your sex drive is legitimately affecting other areas of your life negatively then it’s probably something that you should get help to address.

   How old are you? Sometimes this can be worse when you’re younger. Humans tend to chill out in their late twenties/early thirties. You might want to talk to someone about it no matter what though

3. I mean I cum a lot but it doesn’t interfere with my work-life balance. It is only a problem if you can’t stop cumming to get the things you need to be done. Then you are in the territory of addiction.

4. Yes.

   I hear from men who tell me they can ejaculate multiple times while they have sex. Some of them bragging about 3, 4, 5 ejaculations during their sex sessions of an hour or so.

   These men believe themselves to be multi-orgasmic.

   This is false. This is multi-ejaculatory, which is the complete opposite of multi-orgasmic.

   Multi-orgasmic men do not ejaculate at all during sexual intercourse, but we do have a constant variety of orgasmic experiences throughout sex. These orgasms range from delightful bumps in pleasurable feelings, to toe-curling, soul-satisfying orgasms which quite often cannot be differentiated from ejaculatory orgasms.

   With the one, main difference being we do not lose our erections afterward.

   Why not Ejaculate Often?

   Every time you ejaculate you release something much more important than your semen: You release your sexual energy.

   Sexual energy is the force which powers your sexual desire (feeling horny), wanting to engage with your partner sexually, and most importantly, your erection!

   Which is why ejaculation is a game of diminishing returns: Every time you ejaculate you release your sexual energy. And no matter how robust, horny, virile, and full of cum you feel, you will run out. Not of ejaculate, necessarily, but of sexual energy.

   Multi-orgasmic men do not lose their erections after a non-ejaculatory, dry release, tantric orgasm. As long as you hold in your ejaculation, your are holding in your sexual energy, which means you are also holding in the power to maintain an erection. Indefinitely.

   Yes, indefinitely!

   I don’t need to tell you that the first time you ejaculate that night is much easier, faster, and more pleasurable than the second, and the second better than the third, etc.

   Your first erection will be much stronger than the one you might get trying for your fifth ejaculation within an hour or so.

   Now can you imagine how hard your cock will be if you do not ejaculate at all?

   How Can My Boyfriend Maintain His Erection For Round Two?

   This is a question I always get. From the girlfriends.

   Just because your sexual energy, your sexual desire, interest, and stamina are all being depleted with every ejaculation you squander, does not mean hers is!

   In fact, as we all know, women tend to build sexual energy throughout sexual intercourse. Men are exactly the same! We too can learn to build sexual energy throughout the night, with one small orgasm leading to more, bigger, better orgasms.

   As long as we do not ejaculate!

   But as you squirt, squirt, squirt your way through sex, depleting your sexual energy, your girl is bounce, bounce, bouncing along with you. Except she is getting off on your enthusiasm, building her sexual energy within her, as you squander yours through needless, senseless, clueless ejaculation.

   Acting like a squirting monkey shows a stunning lack of understanding about what the goal of your sexual interaction is.

   Mutually Satisfying Sexual Relations

   The goal of sex with a woman is not to empty your ballsack, and rid yourself of every bit of sexual desire you have, while your girl is on fire, looking for more, wanting more, needing more from you.

   As you can see, this type of multi-ejaculatory behaviour will lead to intense insecurity about your ability to satisfy women sexually. Instead of being able to “rise” to the occasion, to meet or exceed their sexual energy with your own, you will be empty, soft, and shriveled.

   Why would you ejaculate multiple times and deplete your sexual energy, when you can build sexual energy, share pleasure and experience fun all night long instead?

   The only reason a man would ejaculate like this during sex is because he does not understand his own physiology, and does not know what kinds of orgasms await him (and her!) beyond ejaculation.

   Because ejaculation releases sexual energy, learning to control your ejaculation and holding it in enables you to build sexual energy.

   Building sexual energy is the goal of sex!

   No, you are not trying to “get each other off” during sex. In fact, you want to do the opposite: You are trying to turn each other on, get each other really, really hot and bothered, excited, mad with desire and ready to explode like Vesuvius after 1,000 years!

   You want to get each other so hot, in fact, that the sexual energy erupts uncontrollably and pours out of you both like a volcano gone wild.

   Remember: When your body can no longer contain the sexual energy within it, that energy is released through orgasm. And for guys, all you have to do to release this energy as an orgasm, rather than ejaculation, is to not ejaculate.

   Once you learn to control your ejaculation, you and your girl(s) can spend the entire night building sexual energy and experiencing orgasmic eruptions of gigantic proportions together.

   There is no need for Round Two, as you never end Round One. She might need a break. She might need to rest. She may be emptied of sexual desire.

   But you are not! With a wry smile on your face, and a hard, willing member of her fan club between your legs, you are locked and loaded and ready to take her places she’s never even imagined before.

   Welcome to the club: The Post-Ejaculatory Man’s club.

   Please read the article here: r/ejaculationcontrolNOW, called “Multi-Orgasmic is NOT Multi-Ejaculatory.