So I was talking with my friend group and they were saying because I talk to strangers and make everyone feel welcomed I’m too friendly.

I’m very confident I set boundaries, naturally I treat people the way I would like to be treated. I wouldn’t say I let everyone get close to me either I am private on social media but I do acknowledge people and make connections.

If people are afraid to dance I encourage them to dance with me.

I like to see people at their best and push them outside their comfort zone.

If someone is sitting next to me in class I like to make a conversation with them.

I test them to see if they are comfortable first by saying small things but if they start making conversation back I know that it’s okay for me to talk about the class. I then use the connections to understand class better. I am usually the one who make makes the groupchat.

A lot of people come up to me and I make small conversations and they end up seeing me again and say hi. I would say I’m pretty known and I am the one people go to when they need advice or don’t know who to talk to.

People always mention how I know everyone.

I don’t have any fears when it comes to talking to people and it’s natural to me.
I believe everyone has something that you can learn from.

Of course I am careful with sketchy people and use discernment but for the most part I’m genuine and I’m sweet to everyone.

Sometimes I feel bad because that’s who I am and people make me feel like I’m strange or something is wrong.

2 comments
  1. Ppl just project their insecurities on you and probably envy you…..that’s it. You are ahead of lot of ppl as it’s natural for you.

    BET on your strenght and work on it.

  2. That’s my dream to have the experience that you’re having, so i wouldn’t say that you’re too friendly

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