My (23M) girlfriend (23F) and I have been together for a long time. I love my girlfriend, she’s my world. We get along so perfectly and she’s the only one I’ve ever encountered that accepts me for who I am. Four years ago, she moved away to Germany with her parents so they could be with the rest of their extended family. I had no way of getting to Germany at the time, so I was sure our relationship was nearing its end. Neither of us wanted to break up but we didnt know what else to do. That’s when I decided to join the Army. If I was in the army, I at least had a chance at being stationed in Germany, and if they happened, I could be with her again. Well, 4 years go by, and the opportunity has finally presented itself. I now have the chance to re-enlist for another four years with the guarantee of going to Germany for my next location. The problem is, I’m tired of the army. Being in the army is the easiest job I’ve ever had, but dealing with the people who out rank me is almost not worth it. I’m so sick of it. However at the same time. I love my girlfriend and the only reason I joined the army in the first place was for a chance to be with her again. Now that my chance is here, do I really wanna throw it away because I Hate my job? I’m so conflicted, what should I do? How do I decide?