Me (21F) and my bf (19M) has been together for almost 1 year and we both know that our sex drive is very high. I work 9 hours from 9-6 and he’s currently on break to go for uni so he’s very free. Most of the time he’s just stay at home. I know and always know that he always watch porn whenever I’m not home especially when im working. Can u imagine if we don’t live together? Idk what’s gonna happen.
The hurtful part is that he also watch porn and masturbate even when we’re together. I can understand if there’s an exception like I’m on my period.
He just watched porn and masturbate when I go work and he did again at night when I’m in the room, when we can actually have sex but he chose to go to toilet and fap.
And also, another hurtful thing is that he always want to fuck or idk (date???) an older women as in woman in their 30s. He even brought that up to his family, when I’m also there that he would find a sugar mommy or attract older women if he’s single.
That hurts like fuck. Idk how to deal with this.
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For one, don’t be scared to communicate how you feel to your boyfriend. Maybe he doesn’t realize his actions?
Personally he sounds like a pig and I wouldn’t bother with him.
Addiction, is he able to orgasm without porn?
Hi guys pls be nice, I love my bf and my bf loves me. I’m just here to ask some pov from y’all how I should deal with it. Please don’t be rude and being too judgmental. Thanks 🙂
Is he making you orgasm?
it would be strange for a man to get upset at his gf reading a romance novel about a super hot blonde 6’5 greek god of a man
no one would care because its just a fantasy
the same goes with men for porn. its just a fantasy.
i absolutely love a certain type of porn (anal). Would I ever do it in real life? hell no, but i love it because of the fantasy
He may be less popular with the women in their 30s than he thinks.
Meanwhile, if he sticks with you, you’ll hit your 30s eventually, as did we all.
Why watch porn when you can make porn!
I definitely think he has a porn addiction, he’s also probably unaware and oblivious to what it’s doing to you emotionally considering how young he is, he’s comes off as complacent and oblivious, this is something that you 2 need to have a discussion about. Hopefully he doesn’t get defensive or inconsiderate of your feelings and doesn’t try to gaslight you or anything, either way you need to discuss this with him