TLDR- Best friend ignoring me for asking about her relashionship
Let’s call her Julie.
Me and Julie have been friends for so long, recently she moved across the country and it’s naturally harder to communicate. Were at the age to be getting into relashionships now too, we’d argue allot but it was just us(mostly me) being stupid. I love Julie, she’s my best friend.(Platonic)
3 days ago I asked Julie how her relashionship was doing, after that she explained how she didn’t like me to keep asking her about it, but I only did cause she would talk to be about them in a venting kind of way.
I just said “Okay” and then she asked “why are you being dry?” (In text) I said some smartass stupid thing.
I didn’t apologize until a few hours later I said- “I’m sorry if it seemed I was belittling you about your relashionship.” She then said it was okay, but ever since those few days she’s been flat out ghosting me.
I literally don’t know what to say. If she even wants to be my friend anymore? Who knows.I’m so invested in Julie but does she even feel likewise? Are we simply getting older?A million questions flood in my mind when I think about this. Julie has always been my friend and I’m personally not ready to loose her.
but I don’t know how this is supposed to continue, please can someone help me with what to say or give me advice, I’d massivley appreciate it.
2 comments
She might be busy or she might just need some space. Let her come to you and if she doesn’t, that is clearly a “we’re done” signal.
Text messaging is excellent at miscommunicating tone, intentions, and nuanced expression of feelings. If you have a chance to see her again in person soon, you can more clearly express your intentions to make things right again.