So I (26M) met this girl (30F) on new years eve through some mutual friends while we were out drinking at a bar. I got her number and we texted over the last week and went on a date yesterday. Date went well, planned another one next Saturday to go snowboarding. I texted her after the date that I had a good time and was excited for our next date. She responded with the same thing pretty much!
My question is, how often do most girls like to talk to someone? Like should I just check in over the next week or so here and there? Or do I just let her text me. I dont like games and I just like being myself and honest but I dont want to come off to strong or whatever. I suppose I could just simply ask her but I kinda wanted to get some advice from some women on here about that.
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Text her Thursday to firm up plans for Saturday
You are having second thoughts and hesitating. She can sense this and has probably ruled yoh out already for your weakness. Don’t bother dating if you aren’t a top 20% man.
I really don’t think it’s that deep. Some people just like to text for plans others don’t. If you like texting text her and feel it out. You can always just ask her if it comes up in conversation.