I am currently living with my best friend and girlfriend. My girlfriend and I spend most of Christmas and new years apart with our families but talked 24/7. After the holidays everything was amazing until my best friend came back. It seems as if I am the third wheel when he is around. She focuses on conversations with him (almost like I’m not there), brushes off or flat out ignores me when I speak to her, and is always in a bad mood around me but is cheered up by him. I don’t think there is anything between them but it just is bizarre to me and I’m unsure of what to do. I’m really into her and want to be touchy and flirty like we used to but she seems to be fed up with me. I think I’m going to talk to her later today to try and clear stuff up, but I was going to see if I could get any advice if possible.
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> I think I’m going to talk to her later today to try and clear stuff up
Probably the best approach. Just ask her straight out wtf is going on and give the examples here to her as to why you are asking. If that gets you no where just ask her straight out if she would like you to move out so that they can just live together full time and save everyone the hassle.
Ask her, not us. We don’t know. She does.
“I don’t think there’s anything between them” but then goes on to give a list of things that are obviously red flags.