I wouldn’t say we’re dating: rather so, he’s my f** buddy, but I’d like to change that. When he tried to win me back after a 6 month break he’d always write me after we met. The last time I did (have a good day at work today) no reply for 2 days. I want to write something to show that I don’t tolerate him not texting me back even a 1 liner which takes 0 effort, but being online all the time.
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You’re going to punish him for not texting you back?
According to you, you aren’t dating so I’m not sure why you are expecting a certain amount of written communication in a timely manner? Isn’t that the whole point of a casual situation…to avoid the requirements and commitments of an actual relationship?
Maybe he moved on?
what happened in this 6 months? He was interested before but now it seems he is not. Regardless of status, a no reply for a couple days is a huge sign he doesn’t care anymore. Back when I was younger and immature I would do this as a way to let something that casually started to casually die. Maybe he is doing the same? I get you are upset and you deserve a grown up explanation but you are NOT entitled to one, specially from someone who was just there for fun. All this aside, do you really want a relationship with someone who clearly does not have you as a priority?