so long story short i met this girl and we talked alot, and decided to go on a date, but after 2 days after date she started talking less with me, but she still didnt want to end connections with me after i asked her whats wrong, but its not like before i just dont feel her warmth anymore, should i tell her that i want to end it all up cuz shes not like before or should i just continue to send msgs first ?
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She may not realize it, but often as you get to know people you wont have the same inclination to write essays. The thrill of someone new is no longer there and people tend to default back to their natural personality and why it’s important for people to always be who they are right from the start.
Instead of ending it, take a step back and reassess what is going on. See if she wants to go on another date. Also you should follow your gut, if you aren’t getting what you need, it may not be a good match anyways.
Drop the flake and talk to other women. If she contacts you, just drop an ultimatum about fixing her flakey behavior if she wishes to continue. She is an adult and flakey behavior is unacceptable.
Give it more time. It’s too soon to make any conclusion just yet. But by more time I mean somewhere between 2 weeks to a month but no more.
update: i told her what bothers me and she told me that she doesnt want serious relationship with anyone yet and thats why she distanced herself a bit from me but that she still wants me by her side.. i really like her idk if i can do ” just friends” thing