The guy I’m currently seeing was a college classmate. We’ve only been on 2 dates and prior to this I was going through his Instagram following list (sounds a little creepy but I wanted to see what he was interested in and also see if there were any red flags). I noticed he follows maybe 2-3 Instagram models/Twitch streamers, essentially softcore porn because every one of their photos is a boob or ass shot. There was a period of time around the start of COVID to the end of 2021 when he was liking almost every photo or every other photo. He hasn’t liked any since but still follows them.
He also follows 1-2 other female celebrities/Twitch streamers but I don’t really care about that because their posts aren’t all thirst traps.
Personally, I think it’s weird that he not only does this on his public account but also likes these photos. I have no problem with someone searching up these girls to masturbate every now and then but following AND liking is a bit much.
I was thinking of bringing this up but I’m having my doubts because: (1) We aren’t even in a relationship/haven’t been seeing each other that long (2) He doesn’t follow that many (3) I don’t even know how I would bring it up so early on
Any advice?
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You don’t own him, he can do whatever he pleases.
You can tell him it’s bothering you but, if he doesn’t stop then break up with him.
Simple.
>Any advice?
Stop going through his IG.
Thirst traps are just eye candy. If he was into cars, he’d be looking at red ferraris. That’s not a problem for you, but a girl in a red bikini is? Content is content. Seems more like a ‘you’ problem than him.