There are so many terms now that I find myself confused in what exactly it is I’m getting myself into.
I started talking to a guy (K) just over 6 months ago. We fast became amazing friends and the attraction was there pretty early on. K is coming out of a divorce and isn’t looking for a relationship just yet (understandable) and we are also countries apart. We talk most days, mostly messaging back and forth throughout, though not continuously. We try to hang out once a week through gaming, watching a show or movie, but sometimes if neither of us are busy we will hang out more than once a week. It’s very well established by now that we are very attracted to one another and plan for him to visit this year. We are obviously going to have a lot of sex.
It’s so easy with him. I really value him as a person and I feel incredibly lucky he just popped into my life one day. I would consider him my best friend (all of this he has expressed to me multiple times), that I am steadily falling for very hard. He’s lamented on the distance and not being able to date me properly. I feel like I’m possibly screwing myself over because there is a tucked away hope maybe this will all work out, but also a fear that I’m deluding myself because this is some kind of an already established thing that people do and I’ve walked into it without even knowing. Or am I being ridiculous and overthinking everything?
All opinions/advice appreciated 🙂