So I’ve met this really cute girl several months ago but it wasn’t until December that we started talking, and it turns out we have A LOT in common. Like, more than I’ve ever had with anyone before. We are both kinda awkward and introverted, but exactly because we are both like that, it’s easier to talk with her and share things. She complimented my personality, my looks, and… everything about me. Whenever we are together, she is very affectionate. This week, I met her siblings (who are teenagers), and by the way they talked with me, it seemed like she talked a lot about me, and seemingly, only good things.
All of this sounds nice, and honestly, like a dream come true. But, problems start when we go back home. She NEVER responds to my texts in time. I know I am not entitled to her time, and I am not saying I am, but it’s really weird because she is so affectionate (even her messages are really nice once she finally sends them), but it often takes her hours, sometimes up to 10 or 12 hours to respond. What does this mean, is she into me or not? Please help me, guys, cause I am racking my brain and I just don’t know anymore.
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Have u tried talking to her about this? First of, are u only talking or dating? Have u made it clear that u dont want to be just friends?
Same here, mate. Dated someone that I was always in love with since highschool. Date couldn’t have gone better. Still, here I am waiting for a text for 2 days now…
You guys need to have a conversation about your communication. Talk to her about it. Be honest, maybe she prefers calls 🤷🏾♀️.
Communication is important. Don’t assume anything.
If you voice your concerns and nothing changes, then worry. But definitely address the issue.