I tend to not stop talking and keep oversharing stuff without getting anything in return. My husband had a talk with me regarding this today. I have asked awkward questions and do not understand the social norms at times. I know I do it but can’t control. I feel guilty later. Any tips to be socially acceptable and funny yet not share personal stuff?
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I suggest talking slower and more deliberately
You probably have a good idea on topics that would be oversharing. You want to talk about relatable topics. Observations are pretty good. Have side conversations rather than announcing to the whole group. At a party people usually group up, go stand by a group and listen and see if you have something to fit the topic. If your oversharing I’m assuming your talking only about yourself. People get bored. You can’t overshare if your asking people questions.
In a group I’ll ask questions like “hey Sandy did you sell or list anything this week?” and give her a chance to let people know she sells real estate.
I’ll ask my sister how her kids are doing so she can say they are great. I’ll ask about promotions at work, etc.
I’ll try to link people up who should meet.