So I have a crush on this girl. I always wanted to ask her out and I wanted to ask her out directly not on any social media. But things happened and I ended up asking her out on social media. And she said , she’s not looking for someone to date right now. Although I asked her out in the first conversation we had. Is something wrong here ?
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Nothings wrong, she’s just not interested
Nothing is wrong – she just most likely is not interested in dating you and it’s a polite way of saying that.
Just because you asked someone out, it doesn’t mean that they are obligated to say yes, or, there is something wrong
Nope, rejection is pretty normal.
She’s not looking to date you right now
The first thing that you did wrong is to ask someone out without having talked to her some time. You just don’t blab it out. Have a conversation and if it feels right you can ask in the end. I hope you did not start the conversation with this. I hope you ever had a talk in real life first.
And a woman can reject you whenever she likes to do so.
Sometimes people aren’t interested, that’s just life
Yes.
You haven’t yet learned to take “no” for an answer.
Nothing wrong at all. She’s told you she’s not interested in dating.
She doesn’t owe you a relationship just because you have a crush on her.
She’s not interested, move on.
Yea she probably wants you to try getting to know her more in depth instead of just basing off looks
That’s a polite no thanks. Please don’t try and push this any further.
Absolutely nothing wrong here OP. Spoiler alert. She doesn’t find you ‘cute’. Sorry. Better luck next time.
Unless she’s lying, most of the people found out they not interested in dating they just want to meet new people or are on dating app and forgot to deactivate their account or they’re not in the right mood to build something new.
She was polite and is allowed to say no. Your mistake was asking the first convo on social media. Ask in person IF you’re vibing
nah. she just isnt interested in you. she gave you the classic “not ready to date” line.
Theres a chance she’s screenshotted it to send to her girls groupchat and they’re all laughing at you.
Should have at least talked a bit before but it’s really what we , she’s not interested tbh on to the next
If I had to assess the situation I think she is not looking for someone to date right now.
Random message on social media asking a girl out will almost never work, which is why people recommend against it
Time to find a new crush