Something just feels off. In the beginning, we went to eat out and she ordered something expensive and hardly ate it. She only took 1/3 of the plate to go.
During her birthday she was sick. I told her we can do something once she feels better, but she insisted on going out by herself. I asked her to at least take the covid test, but she refused and insisted that it was just a cold.
Recently I told her about my financial situation and asked her if we can do simple things. The first date we go on she refuses to just hang out, and next thing I know we’re eating at an expensive restaurant and I blew through my dating money for the month.
Should I break up with her? I feel like the answer is obvious, but it’s always nice to get a second opinion. She says that she doesn’t like negative energy, and I hate to say no to her. Though, I think she uses it as an excuse to not consider others or the situation.
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Break up with her. You can’t afford to date *her* – she isn’t likely to suddenly want to go on a “free” date – and that’s ok.
People need to be able to both *say* no in a relationship, and to *hear* a no. Sounds like she isn’t able to do that second part.