Maybe a stupid question, but should there be any actual sucking when sucking dick?

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1. Right away for sure

2. A little bit. Think of it as foreplay. To actually make someone cum you need more up and down stimulation than you can achieve by sucking so it’s more about making a seal with your lips and bobbing up and down, or it’s a hand job with added lips around the tip. But the occasional bit of sucking feels pleasant, like the occasional bit of licking. As for your teeth: if you make very occasional very very gentle accidental contact that’s not so bad, it just tickles, but any more than that is going to hurt and not in a good way.

   You have to phase it right. Think about what gets you off: there’s times when foreplay and variety is nice and it’s fun to change it up – you’re never going to make it to the top of the hill in one sprint from a standing start – but there are also times where you just need to maintain the rhythm and intensity and not let up.

3. Yeah there is definitely sucking involved lol.

   I like having the head of his shaft juuuust inside my mouth and sucking it in more. Drives him crazy haha.

4. Sucking involves swallowing….you should do that

5. In my experience as a penis owner (wielder?), a good bj requires a) lubrication, b) warmth and c) pressure/friction. The human mouth is very good at providing a) and b) but bad at c) because your lip muscles are weak, suction is imperfect and because you have teeth and need to breathe. The human hand however is very good at providing c) and bad at a) and b) (you might see where I’m going here…). The conclusion to my thesis is to combine hand and mouth, letting the hand do the hard work providing friction and your mouth to provide the ambiance. You might be at it for a good while and you’ve got to make sure you’re comfortable. Happy bobbin

6. Doesn’t do much for me. I think of it as a loose pussy and I’d rather have pussy, but yeah suction gives a good feeling