Okay so I’m 26(F) who got out of a serious relationship almost 4yrs ago. I was still licking my wounds but immediately had a male FWB much older whom I know I don’t want as anything more than that. In those 4yrs I had zero interest of looking for anyone to date. Now I have started to feel like wanting to explore or start testing out my sex life and casual dating.
I find women attractive and can hook up with other women easily because I don’t feel an emotional attraction to them. I have started developing little crushes with men here and there and it shocks me that I finally find any interest in that. How do I start? I think I’m ready to explore sex with different men but am terrified I will catch feelings too easily, not to mention I feel so self conscious. How does one start? How do you make sure to turn off the emotions? I’m helpless on top of that I think my flirting skills are trash and I get very awkard talking to guys :/
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You start by being yourself. If you’re too confused to know how to act, how do you think that looks to others?