Beforehand, I’d be really thankful if you give me your input on the matter and anything else that you might think relates! 😉
So, every time I meet someone that I’m almost certain is interested in me in a romantic manner I sabotage myself by acting just friendly, but being honest dunno how else you gotta act on a date? I have almost no experience in the dating scene so I guess a bit more of practice might help (?
But then, I start developing feelings, and I happen to be great at pretending and hiding that nothing beyond a friendship is going on.
My guess is that I lack courage and I’m scared of rejection.
I’ve also been told that I’m too proud (which its true) I unconsciously put on an unapproachable and intimidating act. Like a defense mechanism that I have no clue where it comes from.
AGAIN, ANY IMPUT IS WELCOME. IM A BIT DESPERATE AS YOU CAN TELL
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First of all, men should make the moves.
But you should show that you are open to it. e.g. keep eye contact, accept and reciprocate touches during the dates, not pulling back if he moves in for a kiss.
you should not express your feeling overtly at least at the start of the relationship because it can be come off as too clingy. Although, that many times is not a problem for women.