I would like to try new things in the bedroom with my gf. But i do not know where I can learn about these new things. New positions and instructions on how to make best use of it, and what position works best for what kind of bodies. And more non penetrative stuff as well.
My problem is I do not know where to learn these from. There are online articles of course but they are mostly descriptive and not visual. Some have animations but those are not practical. I want to see actual people demonstrating those positions, naked and having sex themself. But I do not want to watch porn. Sex education, if you will. Porn doesn’t educate.
Is there a place where I can get tutorial type of videos with actual ppl doing it and describing the methods and steps?
TIA
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Sex positions for pleasure vs porn do not really look interesting on camera. If descriptions with diagrams are not helpful to you, i am not sure how a video would be.
You could try looking up instructional vids from Nina Hartley. They will be bit date but would be close to what you are asking for.
Get a copy of the Kama Sutra, a sanskrit text from the 4th century CE that has been illustrated and translated into every language. It does show drawings of people having sex, to illustrate positions and techniques, but it’s more about documenting the pros/cons of each position and description of why it may or may not work.