I don’t go on dates/try to get women at bars because I don’t want to string them along. I feel like I can meet a nice woman who I could go on dates with and enjoy myself but I also feel like I could do this with a lot of other women, and don’t want them wasting their time with me.

I was sort of seeing a girl but never really committed to a relationship. I do really like her but I think I might just have a commitment issue. I told her not to text me anymore because I don’t want her to waste her time with me because I’m immature and can’t commit but she has and we have hang out and spend time together and I do honestly have fun. But I have also gone out and gotten positive responses from other females and could pursue dates with them. I guess a lot of the time I don’t want to continue or go the extra step with or ask these women on dates is because I can sense that we may not be a good match together long term and I don’t want to give the wrong impression going on a date would give. But I go back and forth because dates are how you get to know eachother better. I do feel bad about the idea of going on a few dates and then saying we shouldn’t see eachother anymore. But also then again I do want to go on dates with women and form close bonds with so many of them. I know this is unrealistic, so instead I don’t go on any dates. What should I do? Go on dates with girls and see how far it goes? I just feel like at the end of the day I can do this but not with multiple people at the same time, like I only want to give one girl my attention at a time. I feel like a bad person because of all of these back and forth thoughts which is why I choose to not date or see anyone because I know this can be tough to deal with as a woman and I don’t want to bring that on to someone.