Am 18m that has nothing but my start up funds for my online buesness i have no friends or a girlfriend anymore because they weren’t supportive they wanted nothing more no change was there so i cut ties which brought me to love myself more and seek self improvement i have always done everything on my own but i feel its time to care about someone as much as i care about myself listening , knowing and cherishing another person that is smart,supportive and encourages me and tell me when and wrong or right
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Probably wouldn’t date an “ambitious” dude who can’t bother to learn punctuation.
That hurt but thanks for your post
Probably not.
Because ambition without visible signs of it amounting to anything isn’t anything, it’s just a promise.
Think of it like this, imagine you met a girl, who said she was “super faithful” but everything about her behaviour said the opposite. Would you give her the benefit of the doubt.
It sounds harsh, but it’s the same thing for people who claim they have loads of ambition that is “not there yet”, it’s a promise. It’s hard to date people with promises alone. They want substance.
Also if you’re 18 and have all these ideas and the capital, why the need for someone? Throw your efforts into realising that ambition and getting it off the ground. That would probably be more productive.
Maybe it’s just me but when I was 18 (which wasn’t that long ago frankly) I don’t remember finding a partner being top of my priorities you know?
At 18, maybe. At 30, fuck no..
It’s good that you cut ties with the people who aren’t value-aligned to you. As you work on your ambition and dreams, you will meet others who come into your life that will be supportive of your goals. Work hard and expand your network, be happy and healthy. Good luck OP!
There’s a lot of overlap between “online businesses” and both “scams” and “delusions”. How *realistic* are your ambitions?
That’s a long explanation dm me