I (m21) love thongs but my girlfriend (f23) just wears granny panties and bikini styled underwear. However I’m afraid of telling her because I think it’s rude.

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1. Completely depends on how you go about it. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with expressing that you think it’d be fun/hot if she wore a thong, but you must make it clear that you find her attractive even in her every-day underwear

   Edit to add: many women find thongs very uncomfortable so she may say no and if so them I’m sure there’s sexy underwear y’all can find in a different style

2. I think a lot of the comments here are thinking you’re asking her to switch to wearing thongs. I think you’re asking her to wear sexy lingerie occasionally is different and an easy ask. It’s just sharing a sexual pleasures. You think it would be really sexy to see her in some skimpy sexy lingerie – would she give it a try? You guys could shop together for it and then she could either surprise you with it, or wear it on your birthday or (whatever she wants). It’s like asking her to dress up in a costume or call you big daddy. She might see that it really turns you on and keep at it. Or not. But as long as you’re not asking her to do it on the regular, I think it’s a straight forward not-asshole ask.

3. Maybe the first question should be – what do you think about thongs – and sexy lingerie (these can be mutually exclusive)? You’ll likely find out quickly whether it’s worth continuing the conversation or not.

4. Granny panties are all about comfort. It’s okay to ask her to wear it for special occasions.

5. Ignore these comments. Damn people he isn’t trying to force her to wear them all the time.

   Young man, take the time and talk with her about her preferences. Don’t say you prefer one type or the other. Ask her if she would like to shop for lingerie on you. Not just underwear. I’m talking teddies with matching panties.

6. Hey as a girl who usually wears men’s underwear or at least men styles for women, I’d honestly say I’d probably give it a try if my boyfriend told me he wanted me to wear a thong for sexy time (I kinda wanna go buy a few now just for fun to see if he likes them..)

   But also maybe offer to buy a few for her

7. Asking your gf to wear lingerie on daily basis is not cool, but you can definitely talk with her about scenarios in the bedroom, where she wears some sexy lingerie. You can even offer to buy it as a gift for her. That also opens a conversation about her wishes and fantasies when it comes to your sexlife.

8. I think some of the other responses are spot on. Depending on her personality, maybe ask her about it and that you loved to see her in one or sexy lingerie for a special treat or celebration. Help her pick out, make her feel special and loved. 14 years married and I had to get out of my comfort zone for my husband. His response made me feel like a million bucks.

9. If you love thongs, then just wear them.

10. If you like thongs, wear them yourself. There is nothing comfortable about wearing butt floss.

11. Tell her you’d love to see her in a thong and ask her if there is anything she’d like you to wear.

12. I absolutely loathe thongs and would never ever wear them for anything other than sex but i do have a few pretty matching sets that I wear purely for sex. They go on in advance and the second the sex is over and I’m getting dressed then the comfy pants go on.

    If it’s just for sexy time just mention to her how much you love her body and you’d love to see her in a thong and offer to buy something for her, maybe even go together. I had an ex who had a list of stuff he liked but it was always down to me to buy the stuff which at the time I did but having grown up a bit now it should be on both parties to contribute to sex.

13. SISCO LIED TO US ALL WTF

14. Oh, I thought you were saying that you loved wearing thongs. I was going to say they are very uncomfortable, but if you like a string up YOUR ass crack, go for it.

15. I mean I would love if my fiance bought me lingerie for a special occasion. That way I know he loves it. Maybe just do it along with some flowers and chocolates. Even a “just because” gift of lingerie would be sooo nice. I’m not every woman though, so it depends on your girlfriend. I’d never be offended by that though!

16. If you want her to wear them, you need to be willing to wear them too. Underwear going up your ass isn’t comfortable.

17. “Hey (girlfriend) I love your sexy butt and I think you would look super hot in a thong. Would you consider wearing one for me on a special occasion? I could take you shopping if you want? Make a date out of it?”

    As someone who’s been with my guy for 13 years, I would 100% do this for him if he asked me like this. He’d probably get a bj too.

18. Just ask yourself whether you’d wear a thong if your girlfriend told you she’d love to see you in them. Go a step further and try some on for one hour. Whatever your response is, that’s your answer.

19. if you’re asking her to wear sexy underwear 24/7 for you then don’t. her comfort is more important day to day.

    if you’re asking her to wear sexy underwear for you for a special night just go out and buy some! go shopping with her and get her something super cute and tell her to put it on when you get home so you can take it off.

20. You can ask, but be prepared for a no. Thongs are really uncomfortable, and if she’s not a fan of her butt she might hate how thongs look too.

21. Would you be wearing thongs or sexy lingerie on special occasions too?

22. You can wear thongs and your gf can wear her normal style. Why’s that difficult?

23. Sexy underwear is often not comfortable.

    I don’t think it’s a bad thing to ask for but just be ready to respect her answer if she tells you no.

    A thong usually digs into your ass and it feels like you’re walking around all day with a wedgie. It’s uncomfortable lol

24. You are getting a lot of positive suggestions with this, so the only thing I would add is NEVER CALL HER UNDERWEAR ‘GRANNY PANTIES’.

    Just don’t.

25. If you like thongs, then wear thongs Todd. No one is stopping you.

26. Buy her a set for your birthday, as they are a present for you not her.

    Or ask her to buy you a set for her to wear on your birthday, as part of your present.

27. Try wearing a thong for her and see what she says.

28. I’m a woman. I mainly wear comfortable underwear cause why would I wear a thong all of the time. It’s not rude of you in my opinion to ask her if she can wear something sexier for special occasions. I always change into something a little bit cuter if me and my boyfriend are going to have sex. Sexy underwear isn’t super comfortable but it’s coming off anyway. So she wouldn’t even have to wear it that long. Just frame it in a way that you want to do it for sex and you think she’d look good in them and you wanna see it, it’s not like you’re trying to change her.

29. I’m sure she would love to see you in thongs