“It’s not the size, it’s the motion” What is this motion, how do I do it? (Serious)

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1. Get your hips rotating while thrusting also some short light thrusts followed by deep hard thrusts then back to shirt lo ike thrusts.
   If you haven’t got a lot you got to use it all.
   Your can make a woman come with just your bell end if you put enough effort in.
   Hooe this helps.
   I am 9 inches (no bragging) but even us guys have to put the effort in.
   It’s more about mental connection which is 90% of the sex act.
   Also if you want to last a long time with complete control have a courtesy wank 2 hours at least before the act.
   You will be a porn star and she will never know any different

2. the motion is the way you stroke. this matter depends on the individual you’re sexing, so pay attention to the stroke speed/direction that your specific partner likes, and keep going

3. Just lick her clit till your partner has an orgasm then pound out a nut however you like. She got hers, you got yours, so everyone is happy.

4. You still don’t get it if you say not the foreplay but just about the piv .. The motion itself is the foreplay buddy .. More the half work done through foreplay only Man .. Size will just flow through the motion buddy .. You know what I mean .. 😉

5. Yes. It’s all of those. You figure out each one by paying attention to what your partner responds too, little smiles, ahhs, direct asks, maybe a breathier moan with a certain angle.

   Also, almost every woman loves if you use your fingers to rub her clit while you go at it.

   Finally, for a lot of women the real motion is in the tongue 😉

   As for stamina, literally eat healthy and go running regularly

6. I agree, everyone says this but nobody talks about what motions are good lol mostly because it’s hard to describe. One tip I can give is that how you pull back from a thrust matters just as much if not more than the thrust itself. Try thrusting slowly with the intention of making your recoveries just as stimulating as your thrusts, and speed it up once you’ve got it down.

   Mixing up your angle helps too. Try angling your thrusts more towards her belly button, straight in, down towards her but, everything. Take note of what gets a response and try to replicate it. As far as rhythm everyone is different, but in general start slow and work up. Just make sure you have an actual rhythm, it matters more than you’d think. Do all this and the stamina will come with practice.

7. I’ve learned that a consistent, steady rhythm is important. If she can rely on a consistent thrust, it will allow her to get to a climax.

8. Make a circle with one hand by connecting your thumb and other fingers. Put the index finger of your other hand inside that circle. Think about how many ways that finger can interact with that circle: in and out, in and out at upward/downward/sideways angle, side to side/up and down while not going in and out, rotation inside the circle, etc. The “motion” refers to using what works out of the hundreds of possibilities of how a penis can interact with a vagina.

   The only thing I think applies to all women is, start slow. If you and/or she wants to get aggressive then spend some time building up to it. Other than that, everyone is different, so find what works.

9. When we talk about “motion” we’re talking about how good sex is a combination of not just how bodies fit but how bodies *work* together to produce pleasure for both.

   Someone with a penis — regardless of size — who doesn’t know how to move their bodies with their partner is basically just a fleshy dildo.

   If you want to think about this in reverse: imagine you’re having sex with someone who straight starfishes the whole time: just lying there, doing nothing at all.

   You probably wouldn’t find that very enjoyable no matter what their body looks like, right? Same concept.

10. First, I’d say a steady rhythm. Beyond that, I’d say you should angle your body right so that the area above your penis hits her clit as you thrust (because that’s the most likely way to make a woman cum during intercourse).