Best way to give head?

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1. Important: while it is usually known as giving head, it actually means using the mouth.

2. Be sure to keep your teeth in check. Put your lips over them. Teeth hurt. Take your tongue around the head trace it. Explore the hole at the top. Tongue fuck it. The swallow the whole thing until your nose is on his stomach. If he is big. Swallow as much as possible.

3. Might be cliche but just ask him. All guys are different. Giving bj tips is difficult without visual representations. Before you do anything make sure both of you are educated on the anatomy of the penis. You both need to be precise in your speech. It isn’t just dick and balls. It’s a lot more complicated than that.

   One thing I did with my girlfriend which is kinda fun and playful is to treat it like an eye exam. You know when your eye doctor shows you two different powered lenses and asks you to choose between 1 and 2? Try one technique, then a different one and ask which one he likes more.

   All I can say is what I like. I like having my frenulum licked. Suck and stroke. More specifically have your mouth match your stroking motion. If your mouth is going down, then your hand should also stroke down. If your mouth is going up, then your hand should stroke upwards. Use your tongue to cover your bottom teeth, and your upper lip to cover your top teeth.

   If you’ve never given head, I’d recommend the book “How to Tickle his Pickle”. You can get it on Amazon. It’s great because it has visual representations and it teaches you how to give a bj as if you were a complete beginner. It’s a great book to read with your partner. It’s a great way to start the conversation on what he likes.