I read the faq and saw the articles about riding and missionary but honestly imo it seemed kinda basic. In the riding article it jusf talked about do circular motions and grinding and thrusting. And in missionary it only talked about moving your hips in rhythm with his thrusting. Surely that can’t be all to being more active so I’m wondering if anyone has any more detailed tips as to what a female can do during sex to make it better
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Sorry to give a cliche answer first. But truly it is the best place to start:
Communication.
For many reasons, but please let me note just a couple of them:
– we are all shaped differently. That sheer fact means that what feels good to one person doesn’t necessarily for another.
– we all have different experience. You’ve got to start somewhere.
– we all have different expectations, some from culture, some from friends, some from media, some from porn, some from our own self talk.
– consent. It’s great to try new things, there’s a world of extraordinary sexual experiences out there. But please, please, step slowly into that world in an empowered and safe way.
– mutually, sex feel great when you’re doing it together, and communicating is a great way to add an extra layer of connection.
There’s many more.
With that said, some more specific answers to your questions might be:
– do what makes you feel good, and let your partner know how good you feel, and how they/their body is contributing to it, there’s a good chance they’ll love it (don’t say I didn’t warn you)
– Explore their body, use your words, your touch, your fingers, your breath, your lips. See what they respond to, and tease them with it.
– check out different postures, see which poses feel empowering for you, which ones let you lead, or push back, or let your partner admire you from a different angle, or give you great eye contact for some cheeky talk.
– Start early. Like, way early. A cheeky text. A naughty call. A lingering hug and a whisper in their ear. Let them know what on your mind, and what you’re hoping for later.
– Have a play with music, or candles, or in a rush before going out. See what different rythyms feel like. Maybe it’ll be fun to mimic the soft flicker of a candle. Or maybe the urgency of the clock will hit an awesome spot. The flow of a melody might inspire a different kind of motion, maybe a shimmy, maybe a sway.
Hope this helps – and hope you find confidence in a sexuality thats uniquely yours. ✨️
In missionary squeeze his butt and run your hands along his back, kiss his neck, kiss him, pull him deeper inside.. you can take control in missionary in these ways. In any position just touch him, kiss him, squeeze him. Try and control the pace yourself by moving his hips with your hands. Do what feels good.