I’m a 20-something F and there is a guy I’ve been talking to for a while. I really enjoy his company and he is such a gentleman. However, the sex is bad. I’ve tried to guide him as much as I can. Truly it comes down to we are both not the dominate partner in the relationship and sometimes it’s just weird and I am forced to be in control. I can tell we are heading towards a relationship but I am think of cutting it off because I don’t think we are compatible as sex partners. Is that a bad thing?
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No, sex is an important part of a relationship.
At the same time, its hard to have good sex with someone you dont know
I’m a guy that was likely broken up with for this reason. The girl who broke up with me though didn’t know she was my first partner. She would even get negative at me which made me not want to have sex anymore. People get good at something through repetition, he will get better with time and understanding your body more.
No I think you’ve given it a chance and it’s not getting better. If you’re not compatible in that way, it’s really not going to work.