Married for 10 years and never had an orgasm with (maybe partially once?). I now have low testosterone and am very busy so don’t have time for nonsense. But would like a sex life with him(digging a hole 🤣 realize the pun, is i faked or rushed thru sexy time all these years to get it over and just realuze how ling we’ve been marriedl. Problem is he has NO RHYTHM. How due I correct without making him feel embarrassed?
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Gentle guidance and positive feedback. So for example when he happens to start hitting the good spot “yes, just there, I like that. That feels good, keep doing exactly that”
Or if he isn’t there yet but you think you know what you need “can you make your stoke shorter and slower?” Etc
All i know is “orgasm hole” is a new favorite phrase.
Wow… Never had an orgasm that’s crazy. I personally get more pleasure from getting a girl off then myself.
You never had an orgasm, even alone !?
-time to buy clit stimulator and a dildo, use lubes and explore yourself!-
Good behaviour you want continues should be encouraged and noted, it works like a charm for anything be that more fingering, pussy licking, stimulation, kissing, foreplay or sex!
Praise improvements and leave the silly times where they belong