Why can I only cum from a woman either riding me or blowing me?

I don’t enjoy taking control of the sex.

I prefer a woman dominating me and riding me like her life depends on it , like there is no tomorrow.

If she cannot ride me, I prefer she blows me. And she has to be really good in giving blowjobs before I can cum.

Am I normal?

I also enjoy sucking boobs and making a woman wet.