How do I become friends with a guy and get over the empty small talk phase

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1. Well, the best way to become friends with someone is to be your authentic self. Show genuine interest in getting to know them and be curious about their life and experiences. Ask open-ended questions that spark conversations and don’t be afraid of a little awkwardness – it can actually make for some pretty fun conversations!

2. One way to move beyond small talk with someone is to find common interests and activities to bond over. If you’re interested in getting to know this guy better, try asking him about his hobbies or what he likes to do in his free time. If you find something in common, suggest doing it together. For example, if he likes playing video games, ask if he wants to play together sometime. Another way to move forward is to ask open-ended questions that encourage him to share more about himself. Show genuine interest in his life and opinions. Remember, friendships take time to develop, so don’t be discouraged if it takes a while. Just keep building the connection with small talk and be patient.

3. Food. Talk about food you like. Foods he likes. About cooking them. About what spice or chilly you use. About new recipe. About restaurants you like. Restaurants here likes. Trying new dishes/things. Invite over. Talk about other hobbies. And keep going.

4. Find something in common you both like doing and do it together