I (25F) been dating my boyfriend (26M) for 6 months now. We’ve both been kinda slow to open up, and we have not yet discussed our salaries and finances (though it is incredibly obvious he makes more based on our lines of work). However, lately we’ve been having more discussions related to finances and he has begun to divulge ball park numbers as well as specifics. Does this mean anything? I don’t think I am quite ready to discuss my salary or savings, but I’m wondering if he is hoping that by him sharing, I will reciprocate. Possibly due to thinking about a future with me more seriously? Or maybe he is just feeling more comfortable with me? *Should* I be sharing this information at 6 months?
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Means he wants to seriously consider living together. If this is too fast for you, just let him know you’d like to take it slower.
6 months into a serious LTR, you should be floating the idea of moving forward with moving in together. How much more sleep overs and weekends away do you want? But, everyone has their own pace.