I am a late bloomer. I haven’t given too many blowjobs. Now I am seeing a guy. We both enjoy me performing oral sex on him. But I get too nervous during the process. I am too focused on avoiding scraping him with my teeth on accident or on sucking, that I forget to use my hands. I also lose track of how tightly or loosely I am holding him. How can I practice – preferably without him and without using toys? Is it a good idea to get a banana and practice on that?
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Your hands are as important as your mouth and tongue.
Enthusiasm is the most important and sexy part of it all!
The nerves will ease with time. I honestly don’t think practicing on anything inanimate is going to be too helpful with that. If he enjoys it, is patient, and can guide you as to what feels good to him (everyone is a bit different) the real thing is the way to go.
Everyone is different. You might become an expert on blowing one guy, but the new guy likes it all done a little different. Same is true with eating pussy.
Just tell him you feel like you need practice. No man will ever turn you away for stating that. Make plans to blow him every night for a week so that he can teach you what he likes. Trust me, he’ll get a boner just thinking about these “training sessions” with you.
Aloha.
Its super hot when girl practices on me 😅 if shes nervous and I can help her to relax and do better its really nice feeling. And then I can compliment her on progress. I couldnt care less that shes not good at first