Imagine talking to someone and you give a forcefull read on your interests in a hour plenarium. Imagine that they are in a relativelly bad situation, and you try to help far too much only because you are trying to help. I understood this far to late that sometimes people care but to an extent or they want help to an extent. But they all like a relaxing conversation.
For years I’ve put my best interests upfront and spent copious time in them. With that I lost my simple topics and I really need some help knowing hot to build them again.
I started by asking my friends to play some board games, playing some instruments. But that only helps with people with the same interest as me.
What I want is to know some topics that build a relaxed place, and built from there.
Sorry if it is too much to ask, I was overthinking this far too much time.
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There is a reason why THE WEATHER is a time-honored topic. It’s always changing, it affects everyone, and you (pretty much) can’t offend anyone with it.