My husband randomly said this for no apparent reason. He repeated it when I asked him what he said but gave no explanation other than that only women would care about being cheated on. He started acting more like a gentleman and denied saying it after my ex approached me at a new year party. Anyone know why someone would say something like that???
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It makes absolutely no sense
He would be OK with you cheating on him?
Hate to say it but the only motivation I can think of for a comment like that is to make you think it’s irrational to be upset about cheating.
Because he has no soul?
Did you cheat on him?
I assume some dudes with cuck fetishists might say that.
Cuck fetish?
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That’s such a strange thing to randomly bring up.
I don’t really get this, but I do have to say I hear a lot of married women talk about how their biggest fear is being cheated on. And they have like dreams their husband cheats on them and that’s their nightmare.
I don’t worry about it. In fact I can think of many other things my spouse would do that would hurt me and be more unforgivable than cheating.
Plus if my husband is running around on me, I know it. Trust me I pay attention. So I don’t worry about it and I’m not afraid of it because well… I’m going to see that writing on the wall before it happens.
Would I care if my husband cheated? Hell yeah I care.
P-R-O-J-E-C-T-I-O-N
I think men care more than women. A man cheats purely for sex most of the time, when women cheat its more emotional and your marriage is over in their minds.
Your husband may have a hot wife kink and has fantasies about you with other men.
It was rated one of the most common male fantasies in men aged between 35 and 50 in long term relationships
I would take that as him absolutely telling on himself for cheating in some fashion and laying the groundwork for you to feel foolish for being upset about his infidelity. It’s classic gaslighting prep.
ETA: spelling/grammar corrections