We spent new years together and we both wore hats to celebrate the new year. Well his siblings come over I go to my moms house this guy threw away my hat so it only seemed like there was only one the whole time….
He won’t ever talk about me on his social media just talks about his dog
The other day when we were drunk he said he missed his ex but quickly took it back
Am I dramatic for being upset at all of this?
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You are being reasonable to a point. I personally don’t blast my gf over social media, we have been together for 4 years. It took 2 years before she met my parents. Saying he misses his ex however, red flag imo. Ultimately, we can give you opinions on reddit but none of us know what’s going on for sure. You should ask him yourself and discuss/see if you two can work through this particular issue together.
I wouldn’t take it personally that he threw away the hat. If you left it there he probably thought you didn’t want it and he was just cleaning up. He kept his own hat.
Some people are just private on social media they don’t put their business out there, but if he’s talking about missing his ex on social media and he’s not acknowledging that you exist I would definitely wonder what’s up with that.
I don’t even have social media. My bf of a year and a half has FB and Snapchat. I’m pretty sure he has posted snaps with my dog in them…but I don’t think I’m on any of his socials..but I don’t care personally. His parents know about us, his friends know…my only advice is social media isnt real. But if your upset say something but in a non accusatory way. But also it’s only been five months.
He’s not interested in you. Men are simple. They show you how they feel. Does anyone even know you’re dating? Family? Friends? If not then leave immediately because he’s using you
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Definitely not dramatic. He’s being a jerk. I suggest talking to him about it and trying to fix the problem together. Confront him about his behavior. If he doesn’t think he did anything wrong or doesn’t want to change, then sorry to say this, but he might not be the one for you. Don’t stay in a toxic relationship