I’ve been dating someone for three years now and we’ve never been on a trip together he has gone on trips numerous times. He is now going on a trip with one of his lady friends that he just met I don’t know if there’s gonna be more company or if it’s just going to be them two. He knows I’m not comfortable of their relationship and that I wouldn’t like if they traveled together especially, since me and him never did. He didn’t ask me to go. He just told me I’m going away I think it’s selfish of him to not ask me to go with him, we have been dating for three years now, not sure why he doesn’t want to travel with me after I insisted, but he never contributed to making any plans. I thought it was normal for couples to vacation together. Not sure why he says he loves me but doesn’t want to do something exciting together at this point I don’t believe his words.
TL;DR boyfriend is going on trip and did not ask if I wanted to come along..
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This is sketchy. I’ve always been a big believer that men and women can be friends as long as the one in a relationship sets very clear boundaries.
This is not that. I would proceed with caution.
Super sketchy. 3 years, never travelled with you, and he’s taking a vacation with somebody he just met? This does not add up. I would be re-evaluating this relationship.
He is going on a trip with a girl he just met?
Yes. This is sketchy as is his response when you brought it up.
Girl. He’s going on a trip with a new female friend?? That’s his new girlfriend.
So… you’re dating a single guy? I can’t imagine that’s going well. Maybe it’s time to find someone whose willing to be an active participant in your relationship.