How do I be less self conscious of how I look giving my boyfriend blowjobs?

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1. 1) He almost assuredly enjoys seeing your butt, so that’s not an issue.

   2) He probably has his eyes closed and isn’t looking at much to begin with.

   As an aside – I much prefer when my wife is between my legs, as that allows her tongue to really get the sensitive underside of the head/shaft. But to each their own!

2. Believe me, the last thing your boyfriend thinks in this situation is how you look doing it. If he loves you you should be the prettiest person for him, no matter in what situation.
   And watching a woman giving a good blow is sexy as fuck. I bet he sees it the same.

3. If it feels good we don’t care how you look.. the uglier the better.. gag on it.. sloppy.. choose my dick down your throat over breath… I want you to look me deep in my eyes while you suck it.. 🤷🏽‍♂️

4. There will be no prettier sight than my significant other devouring my penis.

5. Just blindfold him if you feel self consciousness. Restricting senses heightens others anyway, he’ll love it.

6. Most Men will love it, they love everything about how a woman look

7. Trust me, when most guys are receiving a blow job, they could care less about what you look like. The general sight of somebody’s head bobbing up and down, the sounds, the sensations. You’re lucky he doesn’t pass out from pleasure let alone be concerned about what you look like…

8. Trust me he isn’t even thinking about that because all of his blood is in his penis.

9. I would assume he loves it unless he says otherwise. We are so conditioned to think our genitals look weird or ugly. Most guys don’t think that at all and if they do, don’t waste your time.

10. You should ask him because from my (M) experience and most of my male friends’, looking our partner directly in the eyes whilst getting a blowjob, is one of the best parts about it.

11. I’m sure he enjoys seeing your ass. But you can always try lots of different positions for sucking him.
    That might be more comfortable for you

12. You have his penis in your mouth. I promise as a man you don’t have to worry about how you look and if he makes you feel like you do you should drop him.

13. You will never look prettier than having a cock shoved in your mouth. Embrace it!

14. Look him right in the eye right as he’s about to finish.

15. Every guy I’ve been with has found the site of their partner blowing them to be a massive turn on. I can almost guarantee you he doesn’t think you look stupid, just hot.

    Also, trying other positions (standing, him on the edge of the bed, et) may help

16. I don’t have any advice, just want to say you are not alone girl. I’ve always been self conscious that my eyes are not symmetrical and perfect like a porn star/model so I’ve NEVER looked at any guy during a bj. If I go to look at them, I’ll pause the bj and use my hand and look, but I’m afraid I’m going to look ugly with my bfs cock stuffed into my mouth with my eyes trying to look sexy at him. I wish I could overcome this as I see guys say how hot it is in this subreddit all the time!

17. If you have your bf’s dick in your mouth you don’t have to worry about how you look. Forget about looks, concentrate on feels.

18. I have the same issue tbh. I feel like I don’t have a sexy BJ face at alllll. So I always do it with my eyes closed and hope my hands or hair cover me enough haha.

19. The sight of his penis in your mouth will be so exciting to him that he will not think you like stupid at all.

20. You could lay down with your head over the edge and let him pump your mouth as long as it’s all agreed upon by the two of you

21. If he is into it, maybe go under the blanket so he just feels it and you know nobody can see you? I bet that would even be a turn on for him.

22. How do you think he looks when going down on you?

23. I used to feel the same way and my solution has always been doing the same youre doing; making my face not visible in some way.

    Until one day. I was with a guy who made me feel really confident, so I took some courage and looked at him in the eyes while giving head. In that moment he told me I was really beautiful and that was probably the best thing someone could ever say to me in that kind of situation.

    I’m sure we all look beautiful while giving pleasure to a person we like/love. Enjoy the moment and look at this person in the eyes! He will love it

24. Focus on sucking him better. Who cares what u look like. As for me if tears and snot is not running down and your gasping for air, it’s not being done right.