I’m a bit naive and have a tendency to believe the good in people. I’ve had a few guys over the last two years win me over with things like Good Morning texts, etc etc.
I’ve met this guy, I really like him. However he doesn’t send Good Morning texts. I’m not sure if this means he doesn’t really like me, orrrr if this is healthy.
I really want to stop talking to other guys this is how much I like him, although I don’t want to put all my eggs in one basket so soon. I’m 33 and getting too old to mess around with “maybes”. You know?
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People are different; some guys might like sending good morning texts, some might not. I don’t think that’s an indicator alone on if he’s toxic, and we don’t have enough information to say one of the other. If anything, just ask him where he stands.
Is that it?
Good morning texts are a bit weird, men usually send then because of the romantic expectations of women (in my opinion)
I guess you should stick with him and try to know what he wants
I’ve never had a guy send good morning texts. It’s definitely not the norm. My best advice would be to do your best not to read into texting habits at all. Unless he’s being outright rude and not replying to texts that need a reply (like when you’re making plans), then you’re fine. A lot of people don’t like to text a lot and just use it for quick check ins. I would focus more on how he treats you in person.
Good morning texts are kind of a basic thing men do in the beginning and IMO is a bare minimum type of thing. I used to get several good morning (afternoon, evening, goodnight) texts everyday when I had my roster.
It’s just a man’s way of starting communication with you for the day and to put him on your mind. But that gets old especially when it’s just surface level communication everyday.
And just know that if he’s talking to multiple women, he’s sending those as mass texts 🤣 so try to turn the conversation to someone deeper than basic replies with no substance and see how consistent he stays texting throughout the days.
Oh and BTW just because he doesn’t send gm texts, doesn’t mean he’s not into you. Not every guy is the same. I’ve been dating someone for a year and we definitely don’t send GM texts everyday. Another guy I dated did and he would always call me every morning. People are all different and you’ll have different ways you do things with each person based on how your communication styles and personalities mesh.