Why are guys like this?
We both are close friends and were in relationships before. We similarly got out of our relationships and then started talking about it because we were going through the same thing. Until we got closer and started hanging out.
Almost 2 months into hanging out, going on dates, texting, making out, talking, picking me up and dropping me off, gave me gifts.
We planned on a movie date last weekend but he ended up canceling because he said he didnt feel well.
2 days after he calls me and says he’s
“Focusing on himself, not ready to talk to somebody, figuring his shit out”
Is this an excuse to a ‘i got back with my ex and you were my rebound’?
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Does it matter? The only thing important here is that he’s not keen on continuing dating. If that changes, hooray! If not, no one can say you didn’t try.
I recommend acceptance and moving on.
You don’t know what he’s going through. Giving him space is giving him respect.
Sounds like his last breakup has inspired him to go monk mode or take up the Spartan challenge. Good for him.
did you take him out on dates? did you treat him good? did you make time for him? did you pick and drop him off? did you give him gifts?
if any one of these questions is a no, that’s why.