i have that rbf, i talk in a cold and low voice (my normal one), i dont initiate interactions but il talk and ask about things if approached, i tend to be the quiet one who listens and makes eye contact but other than that have nothing funny or interesting to add. and so i notice ppl kinda are intimidated of me so they avoid me and i feel like i miss out on alot of things. what r ur thoughts 🥺
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In some ways that’s kind of a good thing in my opinion. Specifically in a work environment, people are usually pretty shitty so if they’re afraid of you they’re going to be less likely to harass you.
Where I work is diverse, lot of chill people, lot of people on some bullshit. Rbf just means less people are inclined to fuck with you.
I always look pissed off and have tattoos and stuff. When I actually talk to people I’m laidback and respectful and eventually people pick up on the fact that they judged a book by it’s cover.