Im definitely more of a dom, but im very inexperienced so i have no idea what to say/do. He says he wants me to tell him what to do, but i don’t know what, i asked him and he said anything. Sooo any ideas on what to do/say more would be v appreciated

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  1. Maybe he’ll be more receptive to telling you what he likes if you ask him specific things like “Do you want to be praised?” Sometimes asking these questions can be dominant in itself.
    The best thing to do (if you don’t know what to do to him) is to focus on your pleasure. What do you want in that moment? Once you know what you want, you can order him to do those things (ex: Come here, look at me, lay down, etc.)Sometimes, it doesn’t even need to be vocal instructions. You can guide his hands where you want them.
    If you want to focus on his pleasure, a mindset shift can help. Instead of thinking, “what does he want me to do to him?” Think “what do I want to do to him?” And be more forward about pleasing him.
    Also remember to ask for consent!!! It’s super sexy (“can I touch you here?”)

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