Just wondering what are your guys success rates of trying to slide in girls dms. Because mines have been pretty low and its getting demoralising 😂 I’ve made sure to only dm girls that follow me back and ive tried multiple different ways from replying to their story to pick up lines ect but Im at a point where ita really hurting my ego😂 for context ive had 2 gfs before and they were cute so i thought i was okay looking atleast but im starting to really doubt myself now😂
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I’d say – respond to their stories pretty quickly after following them so you’re not that random lurker on their profile. Respond to stories just once!
If they think you’re cute, they’ll respond to your response. If so, try and start a convo!
But if they don’t respond to your response, don’t try again unless they start responding to your stories and posts. You don’t wanna be that lurker that’s hanging out in their dms having a one sided reaction marathon. Some girls just like getting the attention and that’s a fact – I have a friend that keeps sending me screenshots of all the guys reacting to her thirst traps and I’m like guuuurl stop trapping them if you don’t want them trapped!
Its pretty low. I feel when I see them on dating apps, many of them are there for the followers and not for matching. But very few are willing to the chat; it does not hurt to try especially when they lists in bio.
For me, I rather met people who will give me quality time. When I do match, I first will develop a relationship (friends level). If she does list her IG, then I will DM slide. If not, I would ask my match and we can connect.
However, if the conversation dies down, there is 2 options that could happen.
1) If you feel the conversation is ghosting, then I’d move on. Perhaps may be could share a link to IG and may be she could continue it there. Its more of a safer option.
2) If you feel bold, you could double down and DM slide on her IG (whether if the IG is shared or not); have a brief message to check in with the match. I will do this if you have a relationship with this person (whether in real life or dating apps). This may be a controversial move. If a person DM slide a match, he or she may feel it’s creepy, but some may feel its ok and would continue to chat. It depends on the person and how you feel about it.