So I (24) started seeing this guy (28) a few weeks ago. For the first little bit of us talking, the conversation was pretty smooth and we had a lot to talk about. But then I realized that I am primarily steering the conversation, asking questions, and keeping the communication going basically. If I didn’t do this, I’m not sure the conversation will keep going.
He lives far away so we had a virtual date and during the date, he didn’t ask me almost any questions, but he did talk a lot about himself. It wasn’t obnoxious, but I know I’m a good conversationalist and I know how to ask questions and I’m genuinely curious about people, so it’s important to me to have someone be curious about me in that same way. I know he’s interested in me, so I’m trying to give him a little bit of time to see where this goes.
I just dont know if this is something I should bring up, or should I keep carrying our conversations on my back lol? Or should I let it die out? Is it a sign that he’s not interested and maybe I’m reading too much into it? Thoughts? Comments? Concerns?
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There are a lot of guys that don’t ask alot of questions. It’s not necessarily a bad thing if you know they’re into you. But it’s perfectly fine to bring up in conversation and talk to him about. Relationships are all about communication, and he won’t know that something is bothering you until you tell him. I don’t think this is something to break up with him over, especially if you’re happy. But if it’s a problem, then you need to talk about it, but also try to be understanding of his position.