I have almost exclusively dated women, with a few sexual experiences with men, and a couple weeks ago I started getting to know a MTF trans woman. She is VERY inexperienced, whereas I have had maybe about 30 sexual partners. However, I definitely have no experience with trans women. The relationship has progressed REALLY fast, and we are spending a lot of time together. We are definitely in the “honeymoon” phase, and have spent a lot of time exploring each other’s bodies.
While naked, I was on top of her. We had not talked about what we were really going for, or what we were planning to do once we got each other naked in bed! She got a half-erection (she told me later that she usually does not get erections at all once she had started taking hormones years ago). I was just rubbing/riding on her and she slipped into me. We both got wide eyed and gasped. I asked her if it was ok, if it felt good and if she wanted me to keep going. We decided to keep going.
I guess I am just posting because I have been really thinking about it a lot since it happened. I am definitely excited for her surgery in 10 months, but I also want to make her feel good now. So I am just unsure how much “attention” to give to her dick. I don’t want her to think that I prefer her with a penis, but I also know that it clearly feels good when I give her hand jobs and head. I like making her feel good, and I don’t mind doing it by playing with her dick, especially since the hormones have made it small. I don’t like anything big inside me or in my mouth, but I am happy with her in me.
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You need to discuss it with her
Tell her these things. See how she feels.