I was sexually abused several times when I was 8 years old. It’s not that being a virgin is something important or valuable to me, but someone I was seeing asked me if I have experience. i was like, let’s see, how can i put this delicately… even though I never had sex as a teenager, the fact that two people penetrated and forced themselves on me multiple times, and i just was laying there paralyzed… makes it hard for me to see myself as someone who hasn’t had experience, even though i didnt understood what was happening and didn’t have a sexual impulse at the time

3 comments
  1. The the answer is no you do not have sexual experience. Those traumatic events do not count. I am so sorry to hear that those things happened to you.

  2. You’re not a virgin, but it doesn’t matter at all. I don’t understand the sacredness of virginity

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