3,5 years dating, and every a couple months I notice this all-of-a-sudden change of behaviour. He’s usually nice and I really enjoy our rs, but when these “periods” appears he would get distant with me, like spending less time with me, texting less and caring less in general. He always says nothing is wrong and eventually like 1 month later everything goes back to normal. I noticed these days the “cold” is back and im kinda tired, it gives me loads of anxiety and clingyness towards him, I just know i dont do anything to provocate it. He also starts spending more time with friends, like all the time we would spend together passes to them. He always assures me everythings fine between us, but its just so annoying to see him change like that out of nothing. Ps: hes not cheating or anything like that.
Wdygtai ?
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He might be bipolar or on the spectrum. As a person who is diagnosed with ADHD, I usually crave for my next dopamine hit as soon as I am done with my latest obsession. Like my relationships start off really good and intense and then die down because i get disinterested. Happens with platonic friendships too. If it is a regular habit of his, they should have this looked at.