I’m a female, and I really enjoy having sex with my fwb.. but he always initiates. We’re getting a room today for us to go to when we both get off work, I get off before him. This time I want to initiate, but I can’t take myself serious & feel embarrassed when I think about doing it. What are some things you do to start it ? I just wanna surprise him lol
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My “go to move” is to sit on my partners lap, grab his face, and start making out with him. Then slowly ill start grinding on him.
Give yourself a couple gentle slaps on the cheeks in the mirror and pep yourself up to put on your brave face. Maybe wear some saucy undies. Being brave and bold is super empowering! I think at least for myself, getting psyched up and feeling sensual is half the battle.