Looks and body type aside, what do you look for in your perfect partner?

30 comments

1. Swear a new variation of this question is asked everyday

2. I’m desperate to find someone who doesn’t hate on people who are less fortunate than them. It’s proving impossible.

   relatedly, someone who isn’t ragingly insecure about everything in their life would also be nice, but seems impossible to find.

3. A sense of humor. Not necessarily funny. Can appreciate dry or witty humor. Can recognize and appreciate satire * see Smart below

   Not a clean freak

   Can act spontaneously from time to time.

   Not afraid to try new things

   Smart. Don’t have to explain the movie as it progresses. Can read a map and knows where to find Colorado on a map.

4. A lady that’s going to be an asset in my life.

5. Inquisitiveness.

6. Someone who doesn’t have sex with other dudes

7. Virginity

8. Be curious, not judgemental.

9. That have cook skills….

10. Sexual compatibility, fun personality and nonmonogamy.

11. Smart, kind, sense of humor, funny, and most importantly, she always wants me to improve as a person, not because I need to, but because she wants me to…or something like that

12. I don’t understand the question….

13. Just that ineffable “our personalities vibe with each other.”

    There are very few people who I can be around for days on end without getting annoyed.

14. Someone who’s ready to put equal effort into the relationship. Looks and body type don’t matter that much to begin with.

15. Can they make me laugh and intellectually challenge me

16. Similar morals and values.

17. Intelligence, curiosity, passion, drive. Many interests and hobbies are a huge plus.

18. Funny. Easy to talk to. Someone I can trust implicitly.

19. Loyalty. What makes a relationship work is your commitment and loyalty and there’s nothing more attractive than a woman who’s willing to stick through all the tough times with you despite all the temptations she might have.

20. There’s no such thing

21. Probably the things you’ve already read a billion times on this sub.

22. There is an awful lot of “Frequently Asked Questions” happening today over a few hours time.

    Is something special happening today?

23. Kindness,humor,ambition within reason,empathy.

24. >perfect partner

    I regret to inform you that “perfect” doesn’t exist.

25. All the regular stuff, loyal, cute, fun, active, engaging, horny, likes the stuff I do. Then the real difficult stuff. I live on a sailboat and cruise the US east Coast to the Caribbean. Willing to do that, diesel mechanic skills, marine electronics skills, ability to improvise, happy to go up the mast, able to shower in 1.5 gallons of water, fish butchering, celestial navigation, etc.. So, I’m single AF.

26. If her looks and body type are entirely unappealing to me, there is nothing about her personality that can make up the difference. Friends, no doubt, but as a romantic partner, I have to be attracted to her also. Sorry I’m blunt.

    Assuming I am attracted to her physically, the dichotomy of empathy and a dark, sarcastic sense of humor is appealing to me. But that is just me, not all men.

27. I won’t ruin reality with thought of perfection.

28. Kindness and wisdom

29. Someone who grins every time they see me and even laughs at my jokes.

30. Nice to animals and little kids