So I’ve known this girl for years and we were pretty good friends but now she only ever really speaks to me when she’s single.. Shes been with a guy for a about 4 years now and has a kid with him.
They have split up temporarily a couple times during that time and every time they have she would message me again and say we should meet up for drinks but by the time the day we arranged would come around shes back with the guy and I’m irrelevant again.
Am I just an easy rebound opportunity? I have many friends that are in relationships and they don’t completely forget I exist.
Also her boyfriend doesn’t seem like the controlling type.