Hi there, I really suck at blow jobs, at least my blow job self esteem is low. My husband always says he enjoys what I do, but I struggle to actually… Take him in. The couple times I’ve tried deep throating has really triggered my gag reflex. If I try to push through it I end up barfing in my mouth. Any suggestions?
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You can learn to moderate your gag reflex but, honestly, deepthroating isn’t required for a great blowjob. So only look into doing it if you WANT to be able to take him all the way in regularly.
Stop the deep throating! 🙂 All my pleasure sensations are in the glans anyway. You can always use your hand to squeeze his shaft!
dont eat for a couple hours before giving a blowjob if ur gonna try and deep throat it. you’ll gag but nothing will come up. also u get used to the feeling over time and eventually ur gag reflex won’t be so sensitive, but it takes practice
What other kinks do u have relating to being dominated
You don’t have to deep throat. Get his dick nice and slobbery, use your hands at the same time and also play with his balls.
Agreeing with some other comments here. No need to deep throat. I enjoy deep throating but only do it here and there. Mostly I’m sucking and stroking and playing. Porn makes it look like blowjobs are all deep throating. They are not. You can give amazing head without it.
If you want to limit your gag reflex, you can train with your fingers, but a blowjob is really supposed to be enjoyable to you, mostly.
I don’t deep throat. I just put it to the back of my throat without going deep enough to gag. Then I use my hands a lot to combine a blow job and hand job together. Never had any complaints!
You don’t have to deep throat. It’s the top part of the penis that has the sensitive nerve endings.